You Slut! Will you marry me?


The housewife and the ho. I like that…and have never heard it before.

I read a post recently that a woman had written regarding sluts, specifically she was commenting on the way that men look at women that they have labelled as sluts.

My definition and opinion of sluts has changed over the years.
Basically my teenage thought process was this:
Sluts are easy women that like to fuck and are not particular in who they fuck.
Sluts pretty much fuck all my friends…but for some reason have an aversion to me.
Sluts objectify men and in the process do far too much comparing…and that bothers me.
Sluts are apt to cheat on you…because they want variety and quantity in sex.
Sluts are the MOST appealing to look at…they create the highest level of sexual tension.
Sluts typically have something else wrong with them…psychologically.

I grew up in a small town (actually a village) of around 700 people.  Using the Stats Can demographic profile for the next closest town, you end up with approximately 70 persons between the ages of 15 and 24 for my village.  That means 35 girls/women to choose from.  Taking into account physical attraction/ or lack thereof…there is a very small pool of potential partners.  Of those potentials, being a small town with nothing to do…many of those girls were “sluts”.

I did actually have the opportunity to enjoy the company of some of these girls and I have to admit that my time with them was more fun that studying math with the smart girl down the street. In the long run, when it was time to settle down (in my case at the ripe old age of 20) I picked a “nice girl”.
A nice girl being:
One that couldn’t tell me how big my buddy’s dick was.
One whose mini-skirt did not reveal whether she had shaved “down there.”
One that, as I would later find out..didn’t shave down there.
One that my mother didn’t refer to as, “That slut that you’ve been seeing”

So I dated the girl next door, took her virginity and eventually married her. That turned out to be one of the biggest mistakes I ever made…sexually and in the overall relationship.

Since then, either via an affair, or in an “open marriage”, or while dating in general I have been quite happy to find myself in bed with a “slut”. Sluts are fun.  Sluts are experienced.  Sluts are open-minded.  Sluts have a similar sex drive to mine. In my adult life sexual experiences I have dated a couple of real sluts.  One was a woman that admitted to me that she picked up a different guy almost every weekend and the other was a prostitute.  Woman A estimated she had sex with over 250 guys and the second said her tally was over 4000.  Talk about your sloppy seconds eh?

The point is, regardless of how colorful a woman’s sexual past might be, I would rather have a relationship (even marriage)  with a “slut” than a “nice girl”.  Sex is such a big part of my life…I really don’t want to waste time with anyone that is overly reserved when it comes to sex. Only one caveat…that being that they keep wanting to be a “slut” after we marry.

2 thoughts on “You Slut! Will you marry me?

  1. We should all be so lucky as to marry someone (male or female) who continues to be a slut. It is something more people should aspire to. 😉

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