Category: Married Sex

No sex Please! We’re married

“Asking if there is sex after marriage is about as bad as asking if there is life after death.” What is it with women treating sex as if it is a commodity? A commodity is a good for which there is a demand and for which the value can fluctuate constantly. Women are famous for withholding sex

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There’s always a catch

We say “there’s always a catch.” When women talk about catching a man…there’s not just one ‘catching’ but several layers of catching. All that follows is based on the societal assumption that men want more pussy more than women want more cock. That may also be biologically based, but that doesn’t matter for now. Consider

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A Decade of Marital Bliss

Does anyone really wonder why there are so many married men on dating sites? First an overview of married life for the typical male and you should be able to piece together your own conclusions: Year one: Sex, sex, sex. All you could want. On the floor, in the woods, the car, the beach. Every time

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Sex with my Ex…Or why a straight guy might switch sides

I just finished writing a response to a comment about one of my posts regarding fellatio.  In that response I stated that I was unable to become sexually aroused if I knew my partner wasn’t enjoying herself. Once again it got me thinking about why I feel this way…and my mind wandered back to the

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I didn’t expect that to happen!

Yesterday I wrote a post regarding the possibility of having another or others joining us in the bedroom.  When I was writing that post I was thinking about the positives regarding threesomes or more-somes.  Today I was thinking about the downside of “watering down” the intimacy that my wife and I share. The biggest fears

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I’d rather be a loser than celibate

Bite your tongue! Yesterday my wife made a decision to start an argument with me.  I say made a decision as there was no reason for it.  For some reason she either wanted an argument or wanted to see what my response would be.  I have asked her 16-year-old son, who lives with us, to please

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Take my wife please!

I have been thinking more often lately about the possibility of having an additional person(s) join my wife and I in the bedroom. Thinking…not actively pursuing the idea. This in itself is quite a contrast to my thinking in the past.  The thought of involving anyone in this highly intimate situation would be completely unpalatable.

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