Category: Understanding how men think

For god’s sake…don’t smile…he might smile back!

I have to state here that I live in the Greater Toronto Area, that is I live in the suburbs of Toronto, Canada. For sake of this post, that will suffice. I have been dating women in the Toronto area while in an “open relationship”, while married and while single. I have come to the

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Was it good for you two?

I was reading a post from a fellow blogger today and she had asked for a man’s opinion about what a man is thinking when he gets “upset” over her sleeping with another him…while he is sleeping with another her. “I’m not sure what, exactly, it is that upsets him honestly. I mean, he wants

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You Slut! Will you marry me?

The housewife and the ho. I like that…and have never heard it before. I read a post recently that a woman had written regarding sluts, specifically she was commenting on the way that men look at women that they have labelled as sluts. My definition and opinion of sluts has changed over the years. Basically

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Feminists demand that women make a bigger wet spot than men do

I was talking to a woman who admitted to me that her number one desire when it came to sex was to learn how to squirt. Hmmm. The first thing that came to mind was…Is that even possible? The second thing that came to mind was…Why would you want to? The thing that I find

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I didn’t expect that to happen!

Yesterday I wrote a post regarding the possibility of having another or others joining us in the bedroom.  When I was writing that post I was thinking about the positives regarding threesomes or more-somes.  Today I was thinking about the downside of “watering down” the intimacy that my wife and I share. The biggest fears

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What happened to all the nice guys?

I see this question posted with some regularity on internet dating sites, so I thought I’d take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven’t figured it out. What happened to all the nice guys? The answer is simple: you did. See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely

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“You wouldn’t ______ if you loved me”

“You wouldn’t ______ if you loved me” I have heard these words uttered many times, typically by a woman and almost always in regards to cheating.  The last time I heard it was during a discussion about cheating and the woman stated, “A man will not cheat on his wife if he loves her.” I

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