Tag: witholding sex

No sex Please! We’re married

“Asking if there is sex after marriage is about as bad as asking if there is life after death.” What is it with women treating sex as if it is a commodity? A commodity is a good for which there is a demand and for which the value can fluctuate constantly. Women are famous for withholding sex

Continue reading

There’s always a catch

We say “there’s always a catch.” When women talk about catching a man…there’s not just one ‘catching’ but several layers of catching. All that follows is based on the societal assumption that men want more pussy more than women want more cock. That may also be biologically based, but that doesn’t matter for now. Consider

Continue reading

Don’t sweat the small stuff

I’ve been in one relationship or another for the better part of the last 30 years. Sometimes it’s been great, sometimes it’s really sucked, and sometimes we just plugged along because time keeps moving. Being an observant person, here’s some things I’ve learned along the way: 1) Ladies, we really, honestly can’t read your mind. Please,

Continue reading

The quashing of desire

Which came first? The chicken or the egg? Back when I used to frequent dating sites, one common thread came up among the married women, that  being that their husbands were not interested in having sex with them. This created a great deal of intrigue with me because I was, at that time, married to

Continue reading

The real perversion

Which gender are the “real” perverts? Perversion being a concept describing those types of human behaviour that are perceived to be a serious deviation from what is considered to be normal. Would not the use of sex as manipulation, or the withholding of intimacy in a relationship where sexual connection would normally be one aspect

Continue reading